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Real lonely wives are longing for a connection!

Many of these women could be looking for a man who’s available and interested in a like-minded encounter. We’re talking about infidelity, of course. Let’s face it, life creates responsibilities and keeping a real connection is a difficult and often illusive thing for many people. Right now, there could be women in your neighborhood who are longing for newfound joy and connection in their day-to-day lives, but they have no outlet for expressing this loneliness or creating a bond because of their circumstances. So without judging, what is it that makes a housewife take a chance on an affair?

Lonely housewives are lonely for a reason

The sacred bond of marriage. This phrase has been fed to countless women around the world for the past few centuries as a means to establish security and build upon family structures. That’s all fine and dandy in the year 1817, where a woman was a piece of property to be married and shipped away by her father to establish his family’s societal footprint. But in the new millennium, a woman’s access to freedom and personal sovereignty is a testament to even the most subtle of feminists. In other words, monogamy isn’t all it’s cracked up to be and there are still women in today’s modern marriage model who are incredibly unhappy. So what are these seemingly depressed women to do? Is infidelity a viable solution? Some experts are saying it’s a means to shed light on a problem.


6 reasons a lonely wife would cheat

1. Unhappiness crisis

This is a common narrative among human beings according to Esther Perel, world famous relationship therapist. Perel argues that an affair can spark because of a missing element in a person’s deeper identity. It’s a case of a bored wife.

“I could be in a very good relationship with you, and love our life, but then something else might appear that connects with something inside of me that has nothing to do with us. It has something to do with my past, my longing, the lost parts of who I was.”1

2. Lost emotional connection

The oldest cheating stereotype is that of a woman seeking an emotional affair while the man goes the physical route. Fair enough, let’s address it. According to Helen Fisher, author and biological anthropologist, women are more likely than men to have an emotional connection with their lover and accept infidelity because of loneliness.

"Women tend to be more unhappy with the relationship they are in," Fisher says, "while men can be a lot happier in their primary relationship and also cheat. Women are more interested in supplementing their marriage or jumping ship than men are -- for men, it is a secondary strategy as opposed to an alternate."2

3. Tired of the social pressure

Women are traditionally told to conduct themselves in a matter that meets society’s expectations. As more and more women are accepting the world of infidelity, there is almost a rebellious reaction to screw all the expectations and perhaps just ‘screw’ because it feels right.

Michèle Binswanger is a Swiss journalist and author of Cheating: A Handbook for Women. She believes that women have the same biological urges as men but with more sensitivity involved. As such, more women are taking back their sexual license.

“Women are known to be more sensitive to social pressure than men and there has always been more pressure on proper sexual behaviour for women, Binswanger suggested in a recent interview with independent.co. “Also they traditionally had fewer opportunities because they were more likely to stay at home with the kids. Today women have higher expectations about their sex life than 40 years ago, they want to experiment and are generally more independent.”3

4. Finding a like-minded affair partner

As it turns out, both married men and women can be extremely lonely and misunderstood by their spouse. These human beings are seeking someone who understands them and an affair partner can only enhance the initial attraction that presents itself to an extramarital act of infidelity.

Author M. Gary Neuman believes it’s not just about the sex for men either. “The majority said it was an emotional disconnection, specifically a sense of feeling underappreciated. A lack of thoughtful gestures," Gary says. "Men are very emotional beings. They just don't look like that. Or they don't seem like that. Or they don't tell you that."

It’s obvious there are communities like extramarital affair websites where emotionally disconnected husbands and wives can hookup with someone who understands.4

This presents more options to experiment and try to heal what is lost, perhaps turning to experimentation with different desires and lifestyles. Besides married dating, other popular options include same sex dating, and poly dating.

5. The marriage is at the point of no return

Everyday, endless married women complain about the lack of connection and mistreatment from their husbands. Many other women are keeping their marriages hanging by a thread. A select minority of women know the marriage is basically over, and an affair isn’t likely to hurt anyone if nobody finds out. In fact, for many women, it can only make them feel a sense of life again.

Cosmopolitan documented a variety of such wives who cheated and have no regrets. One woman was in a long-term relationship and understood she was miserable. She took a chance on a discreet affair and the rest was history.

“If it wasn't for this guy reminding me what it felt like to be wanted and appreciated, and showing me that I did deserve better, I never would have built up the courage to leave the man I was with.”5

6. Feeling undervalued

If we do a deeper dive into what it means to truly be a lonely housewife, we find that women are in important relationships but they don’t feel like they are an important piece. This is when damage can be done to the female’s morale and overall perceived value in what she brings to her relationship.

Mental health counselor Stacey Brown emphasizes how much a husband’s input really means to her emotional health.

"In my experience over the years, I can say that women tend to cheat in intimate relationships when they no longer feel valued. This can mean different things for different people, of course, but generally speaking, if a woman does not feel heard by her partner, or if a woman feels dismissed or ignored by her partner, the woman tends to be more open to outside solicitation."6


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Voila, the world of adultery is sprinkled with the architype of the lonely housewife and experts are showing there is a reason for it. These women are people, and they are deeply unhappy in their current marriages. Many lonely housewives hookup for an emotional connection that they feel they're missing. Rather than continuing the taboo and mocking the emotional states of people in these marriages, perhaps it’s time to nurture them with different outlets for self-empowerment and happiness. You can download some married dating apps or try adult dating websites anytime, and see if this type of endeavour is for you.

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