It’s a strange world that Stay-at-home Moms live in and housewives live in.
For those of us who are used to working, it would seem unbearably lonely to be at home all the time and the truth of the matter is that not everyone is capable of handling staying at home. We all think that we would love to win the lottery and never work again, but unless we fill our time with something we find meaningful, staying at home can lead to depression, anxiety, and a lack of productivity that will leave husbands scratching their heads.
If asked, a lot of people would say that they would want to stay home all day and talk about how lucky housewives or Stay-At-Home Moms have it. This lack of understanding when it comes to the pressures of staying home, is a factor in driving these lonely housewives straight into the arms of another man. The hurdles and difficulties that you face as someone who stays home are different from the ones that you would face daily at work.
It can be more than a little depressing to have free time when the rest of the world is at work or doing other things. While you can tell yourself that it will be better tomorrow, or the next day, the lack of milestones to attach yourself too means that many people who are housewives or who stay home to take care of the children don’t have the same sense of time as the rest of us will. Wednesday could be the same as a Friday for them and there is no counting down the days until a weekend, since their weekends often don’t change their routine too much.
It’s because of this that many lonely housewives are looking online for some satisfaction. This can mean that they’re playing new games, that they’re searching for people with similar interests, and even that they’re having extramarital affairs. The internet is the new and wondrous adventure that can help to life lonely housewives out of their depressed states so that they can find their happiness again. If that happiness comes from meeting or flirting with another man? Well, we’ll never tell.
So when it comes to your wife being a lonely housewife, there are a few things that you can focus in on to ensure that you don’t end up eroding the foundations of your marriage.
For the housewife, there are a few steps that you need to make sure that you follow so you don’t end up feeling like you’re a lonely housewife who is under attack from ennui. The problem is that we, as humans, tend to stagnate when we don’t have a set schedule or goals to work toward. So while you don’t need to create a schedule for yourself, you need to ensure that you’re not allowing yourself to join the ranks of the lonely housewives across the globe.
1) Don’t let yourself go into autopilot.
It is all too easy to give into that temptation to just turn on the television for some background noise. The end results is that you’re sitting on the couch, not thinking and not moving. This means that neither your body nor your mind is getting the exercise that it needs in order to be content. While a little bit of television isn’t a bad thing, when you find that you’re watching it all day you need to make a change. Whether that’s taking a course online, reading a book, or going outside is up to you. Just make sure that you don’t have too many sedentary activities and that you aren’t afraid to change up your routine. If you are taking a course online, go to a coffeeshop that has wi-fi access or even a library. As long as you can get a change of scenery, you should be fine.
2) Create a schedule for yourself and set some goals.
Have you always wanted to write a book? Write it. Even if no one else is going to see it, then you know that you’re going to be keeping your mind active. Make yourself long term goals and then work your way toward them. While it might be more immediately fulfilling to make a lot of short term goals, you can’t rely on them to pull you out of your ennui.
3) Don't be afraid to reach out to new people.
The internet makes it easier than ever to find new people. There are meet ups, websites for people with common interests and the like. If you have want to meet someone whether it’s just to talk, to make a new friend, or to have a hot and steamy affair, you can do all of these things without much fuss online. If you’re having trouble finding people who you can connect with from your pool of friends and relatives, then reach out online instead.
Now that we’ve looked at what the housewives themselves can do, there are also things that you can do to help a lonely housewife. If you’re the husband of this lonely housewife, then you can ensure that you are going to pay enough attention to them and to encourage them in their endeavours.
What you’re going to want to do if you’re looking for an affair with lonely housewives is slightly different.
1) Show them something new.
We’re not talking about your new sex move here, even though we think that would be somewhere on the border between amazing and hilarious. Give them a new experience and find out what you can do to make sure that they enjoy themselves. Maybe they’re interested in history, but have no chance to go to the museum or maybe they’ve wanted to see a certain movie, but can’t find the time for it. Simply by listening and asking questions, you can turn an average date into an amazing date that will have you and your affair partner with goofy smiles on your faces.
2) Don’t be dismissive.
One of the most insidious things about being a part of the lonely housewives club is that it can be hard to find people who will take your problems seriously. Some housewives even put down themselves, minimizing their problems because we are taught by society that the problems of the working world are infinitely harder and more important. Listen to what your affair partner has to say and you will find the keys to the lonely housewives that you are seeing.
There’s more to it than just this, but when lonely housewives leave their domiciles, they want to be surrounded by positivity. Being negative can just reinforce the issues that they are having with themselves and in some cases, they can even make them bigger. By keeping your own conversation on the positive side, you’re going to score points without even having to try. We’re not saying that you need to have rays of sunshine coming from where the sun shouldn’t shine, but try not to get entrenched in a negative attitude.