The biggest “quality” of men is their commodity, am I right? And when they are online they want to relax and forget to be efficient. They only want to stay there, in front of the computer and wait for women to make the first step. Even worse, they don't bother to completely fill out their profiles or just spill out a few words. Are you one of these types?
So let's see what women believe when they are reading your online profile. The frequent sentences that you can find in men's profiles are:
“Just contact me and you won't regret it.”
and now what she thinks when she's reading this is: “What??? Next!!!”
“I am the best and I am waiting for you.”
she thinks “Yeah sure, next!”
“Who wants to know more about me just ask.” or “If you want me just try your chance.”
she thinks “ Why I would like to know more about you? You are nobody to me.” The problem is that you are not giving her any reason, any impulse to contact YOU.
She is browsing profiles, why should she stop from doing that? - “You will find more about me later.” she is thinking “Really? Just wait for me! Next.”
The key of attracting attention to a woman is to talk about her. You can do this from the very beginning by making a profile that is addressed to HER.
So be specific saying what you are really looking for. Say the things that are most important for you. Writing something like: “I am a serious guy, looking for a blond haired woman, living in Pennsylvania, aged 30 – 42 years. I love traveling and outdoor activities” you will make all the difference. All women that accomplish these criteria will stop browsing another profiles thinking: “Wow, he is looking for me. I am the best for him”. You can say something about you too, but something positive and interesting. Something that would make her STOP searching. “I want three things in my life: to love, to be loved and adventure.” Keep in mind that it is more important what you are looking for than who you are. It is sad but true (excepting if you are a doomy, alcoholic, unclean, crazy guy).
So, improve your profile today if you want a full of messages inbox, tomorrow!