Have you ever felt like there was something missing between you and your female partner when you are having sex? Maybe there’s just something about the way that she holds herself or an expression on her face that is throwing you off and making you think when you should be letting your mind go to other things. There might be something that you’re doing wrong, that’s true, but if you want to be able to read your partner without having to ask her what’s wrong and break the rhythm when you’re not sure if there even is a problem, try looking for these small signals first.
If you stop to ask what’s wrong midway and there’s nothing wrong, you’re going to put the thought into your partner’s head that there could possibly be a problem between the two of you and that way lies madness.
The most common questions about the female body language have less to do with what her body is doing and more focused in on the facial expressions that a woman has, but there are a lot of questions about the actions of females that can be hard for a woman to explain. Often there isn’t thought put into these actions and so the unconscious movements that seem like clear signals to you can often mean something quite different.
So here is what to do if your female affair partner:
There are definitely men out there who are generous lovers and who love to make their partner feel good. They will spend their time going down on her until there are tears in her eyes, but the woman never wants to put her mouth anywhere near your penis. There are times when you might feel like you’re the one who is making all the moves and taking all the initiative when it comes to your sexual romps, yet she never seems to be as into it until you get her in that mood.
There are a ton of reasons as to why this could be and the best thing to do would be to talk to your partner about how you feel, but if you aren’t ready to talk about it yet you can generally assume that it will be one of the following three things. She might not have thought that there is anything to reciprocate. If you want sex a lot more than she does, then there isn’t going to be much in the way of reciprocation because she is giving you what you want. There is also the misguided notion that since guys supposedly want sex more that it’s their responsibility to turn their woman on and that men don’t need any stimulation to be in the mood. Lastly, there’s a stigma into today’s society about women who are too sexually forward and aggressive, it may be that she thinks that being too aggressive would turn you off rather than turn you on.
This is something that you really do need to talk about in the end, but you could start to take steps toward fixing it by making her feel desired and wonderful while guiding her hands toward you. Once she gets used to touching you as much as you touch her, you’ll be able to broach the topic much more easily. Remember to keep it slow though if you’re going to go forward without discussing it directly, imagine that you’re feeling around in the dark and you don’t want to have a nasty bump on your shins.
There are some women who shy, but there are times when this goes to a whole new level. If a woman will let you have sex with her, but won’t let you kiss her and keeps her eyes tightly shut the entire time that you’re having sex then there is definitely something wrong. There is a point where it goes beyond mere shyness and you have to wonder if you’re making your affair partner feel uncomfortable by the way that you’re touching her.
If this is happening then it needs to be addressed immediately. If she is uncomfortable with the sex, but is afraid to voice it for reasons unknown then you need to coax her into voicing it. Maybe rather than having sex you can have a nice make-out session where you lavish attention on your affair partner. If you are not focused just on the making out and the inevitable end to it, you’ll be able to have an intimate little conversation with your affair partner while you’re both in a good place.
A few things to check prior to this is that you might have stubble which can scratch and chafe, you might have bad breath or you might just not be a very good kisser. All of these things are relatively easy to fix and should be done prior to trying to do it. The more tender and intimate you are with your affair partner while doing these things, the easier it will be for her to be open with you.