Sex doesn't always need to be a two way street.
Nowadays there are so many ways to get an orgasm that you could have one just walking down the street if you were really clever or even just learn the tantric method.But the truth of the matter is that if you get to orgasm all the time then you're just going to take it for granted. It’s like chocolate cake. If you get to have your cake and eat it too every day then you’re not going to find the cake as special as you once did. It will become routine and some days you’re not even going to want the cake, but will eat it because it’s there. We might be going a little too far with this metaphor, but it still holds true.
So what is the answer to too many orgasms? Orgasm denial.
That’s right ladies, you’re going to want to train your affair partner’s dick so that you get to decide when he gets to cum. He might fight it at first, so you’re going to want to start small, but this means that there will be lots of sex and orgasms for you. For him it means that when he gets to have his orgasm, it will be the most intense thing that he’s ever felt. We’re not saying that you need to go the whole nine yards and have him wearing some sort of chastity device (unless of course that’s your thing), but there are a lot of benefits to orgasm denial even in the short term.
You don’t need to be a full blown dominatrix to enjoy the benefits of male orgasm denial. In fact, you don’t even need to be someone who is particularly dominant. The main thing you need is the focus and the determination to go through with something like this. Orgasm denial is basically the practice of keeping your affair partner in a state of higher than normal sexual arousal for a heightened period of time without orgasming. There’s nothing too it, really. The male focuses on pleasuring you and when you finally let him cum, he’ll be unable to speak.
There’s something sexy about a dominating, confident woman and orgasm denial can easily go hand in hand with any woman who likes to take charge in the bedroom.
What are the benefits?
According to studies done on orgasm denial, couples who practice male orgasm denial have better communication skills than couples who don’t. Since the male will be more willing to please you, they tend to talk more about their thoughts and feelings even if that sounds strange. It also makes communication during sex easier simply because males who are more desperate for release tend to be more vocal about what they need from you.
Another benefit is that you get to be in charge. There are so many variables in our lives and so many things that we’re not in control of that getting to control your affair partner’s orgasm is a heady rush. Even if you only end up denying them for a couple hours or so, you’re going to feel the difference when the males finally get the chance to show how badly they want you.
When you’re practicing orgasm denial you’re going to be the focus of whoever you’re denying. They’re going to be thinking about you and wanting you all the time, it’s really hard to lose.
The female affair partner gets the attention that she craves while the male affair partner not only gets more attention from the female (in different ways), but also an orgasm that is much more intense.