Here are the top five mistakes men make when they start to date online and how to avoid them!
Having a Boring, Average Profile!
You have to put some real effort into your profile to make it shine above the masses.
Creating a unique, well-thought-out profile will instantly give you an advantage over 90% of the other men on AshleyMadison.com.
Create an interesting / different profile with some humor.
Be sure to have nothing negative in your profile. Example: don't talk about how much you hate your wife, or how unhappy you are in your marriage… that will simply give the impression that you are on the website because of desperation and also make you sound extremely needy and clingy. Keep it fresh and funny… make it sexy
Have a good, recently taken photo!
Try a head and shoulders shot and smiling to begin with, wether you want the picture to be public or private. Pick only the best shots, quality is better than quantity.
Placing Too High a Value on a Potential Date!
This is another instinctive mistake when first starting out.
Your mind plays tricks on you and you put the lady on a pedestal before even meeting her!
Especially if you haven't had a date for a while. Remain focused, but also remember, you have NOT met her yet…
Treat every potential date as an opportunity for YOU to check HER out and see if you fancy her!
NEVER expect to meet the perfect affair partner on a first date.
This way you will never be disappointed and sometimes very pleased.
Not Meeting Her Quickly Enough!
I did this myself for far too long.
The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen.
So forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email.
As soon as possible, meet for coffee and a chat to see if you like each other.
This will save you a lot of time and energy and disappointments.
Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails.
If she doesnít agree to meet, move on and don't worry about it.
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Emailing Interstate and Overseas Profiles!
I did this a lot when I first started married dating online.
It's tempting to do but is a complete waste of your time, energy and focus. Unless you are planning to be in that particular city or state for work, don't bother trying to build something that in reality will never happen.
Unless you are rich and have a lot of spare time, don't bother with interstate and overseas profiles.
What are the odds of you two ever hooking up?
Very little chance of it.
Why would someone interstate or overseas be better than someone local?
Only focus on and contact women in your immediate area.
Keep it down to 100 km radius from your home. This will keep your expenses and time travels down.
Not Choosing the Meeting Cafe.
This is more important than it sounds. Women like to be led by a decisive man. So decide/suggest the cafe, time and date.
If she can't make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her within reason.
She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions.
Make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend. Married Dating is not as simple as regular dating, letting the possible partner that you still have a life outside of AM and will make them aware of your current commitments with family and friends.
Be relaxed at the coffee date. Don't mention your partner or that you haven't been dating for a long time. Just have some fun and BE happy.
Avoiding these five mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy and focus with online dating. This will prevent you from quitting before you get the results you desire and deserve on AshleyMadison.com.
Have fun and many happy seductions…