Some people would call it serendipity and others would call it chemistry, but no matter what you need to be aware of your timing when you’re trying to get a woman into bed with you. While it’s true that every woman is different there are certain things that are hard to go wrong with any woman. Patience is one of those things that is essential not only to you getting laid, but to you even being able to interact with women. There are going to be things that you don’t understand or reasoning that you don’t see as important that is important.
Do you want to know why it’s important? Because it’s important to her.
Do you need a better reason? Well, sir. You’re not going to get laid and therein lies your problem.
You need to know your lady pretty well or at least understand women in general in order to get far with them. Like we said every woman is different, but there are some things that seem to work no matter what kind of women we’re talking about. Most of them have to do with getting a little pampered and honestly, who doesn’t like getting pampered?
You might think that we’re making a premature ejaculation joke here, but we’re really not. This is before you even get into the bedroom. If you’re rushed and all you can think of is how much you want to get this woman into bed. It’s going to show in every move that you make. I know you think that it’s not going to, but women can pick up on signals better than you can hide them and they’re going to know what you’re thinking of. Rushing through the earlier part of the date means that you’re not interested in her as a persona and no matter what the woman is interested in you for; no one wants to be thought of as one step up from a blow-up doll. Take your time and spend some time with her, talking to her and learning more about her. While some would see this as a useless step the more that you understand about partner, the more you will be able to please them in bed. There are tons of little tidbits that are dropped in conversation and body language that will be able to help you find your way through this labyrinthine maze.
There’s something fun about getting dressed to the nines as long as it’s not something that you have to do every day so splurge and instead of relying on the nice dinner that you plan to take your affair partner to take her to a musical or an opera or a ballet. It might not be your cup of tea, but it will be nice for both of you, especially if you pick something that she has expressed an interest in before. There are plenty of things that you can do while dressed up and it doesn’t even need to be the high class operas. Why not a nice jazz bar where your partner can get dressy, but the two of you can also dance should you wish to? Remember that this can translate into a sports day for you watching your favourite sport at whichever arena you choose. The more conscientious of what your affair partner wants to do, the more conscientious they tend to be about what you want to do and falling into bed is pretty much inevitable.
It may have sounded like we were knocking nice dinners in our earlier suggestions, well we’re not. Five star restaurants might not be what you’re looking for, but the whole idea of dining out (as a respected restaurant critic) once said was to create an experience. The high class and specifically themed restaurants are there to create a memorable experience for you and your partner, so choose something which is truly tailored to what you are looking for in a restaurant. Does it have good food, wine and most importantly, a good atmosphere? Check it out. If you’re looking to get closer to the bedroom, however, we would choose something that is more romantic and less about the opulence so it can be more about the chemistry that is growing between you and your affair partner. Order something sexy and stay away from the pizza which will bring up connotations of fun rather than sexy.
Now this one might seem obvious. Get her drunk and you’ll get whatever you want, right? No. No and come here so I can smack you. First thing, no one who has had really good sex thinks that drunk sex is always the way to go. Drunk sex is more fun when you already know your partner and you can be giggly with them about how uncoordinated the two of you are. When we say stop for a drink we mean a way to prolong to the night and if the right place to stop is chosen, the atmosphere will help the two of you toward your destination. Listen to what your affair partner has to say and find a place that has couches rather than tables so you do can be intimate as you sip on cocktails. Couches also allow for casual touching in a much more natural manner than any tables would.