There’s a question that men seem to focus on a lot and we’ll give you a hint in that it has to do with oral sex. Oral sex is the best, isn’t it? I mean who wouldn’t like laying back and feeling someone go to town on your dick so they can lavish it with attention. Warm, wet attention and… Sorry, lost my train of thought there. Anyway, oral sex. There’s a lot of thought that goes into the whole oral sex thing and it’s not a skill that anyone really comes to naturally, but there is a question that both men and reason are curious about (albeit for different reasons).
Now everyone who gives oral sex has a different reason as to why they like or dislike it. Sometimes people love the feeling of the penis on their tongue, other times it’s the fact that they can bring their man such great pleasure that it allows them to wrap their husband or affair partner around their little finger. Whatever reasons you or your affair partner might have for giving oral sex are personal to you alone, but while the spit or swallow argument is just as personal, there are some things to take into consideration when it comes to talking about spitting or swallowing.
The taste is definitely a factor since the taste of cum changes depending on what you eat and how you take care of your body. Sometimes the gagging isn’t because you’re pushing too far down your affair partner’s throat, but because your pre-cum just doesn’t taste good. It’s definitely something that women are more likely to do if they’re intimate with you. If you’re in a longer term extramarital affair, then they’re more likely to swallow sperm. Otherwise, they’re going to spit if they don’t like the taste. Some women love the taste of sperm and other’s don’t, it’s all about personal preference.
One thing you need to keep in mind, guys, is that it’s not an insult if the woman spits rather than swallows. There are a couple things that you might need to take into consideration. One, that maybe she’s doing this to protect your good emotional feelings because the taste of sperm makes her gag. There’s little that will kill a post orgasm experience more than listening to someone try not to throw up. Two, that you can make your sperm more appetizing for a woman by eating more fruit. Someone who eats a lot of processed foods and meats is going to have sperm that tastes very bitter. Try tasting your own once and see if it’s any good.
If you don’t want your sperm in your mouth, chances are that she won’t either.
There are some men who actually will have their feelings hurt if their affair partner spits rather than swallows, but these guys need a reality check. Spitting is just a personal preference and you should consider yourself lucky that you’re getting oral sex in the first place. Some women just don’t like giving blowjobs and just won’t do it.
If you want your affair partner to swallow then you can talk to them about it. If you have reasons for wanting them to swallow, maybe you can explain that to your affair partner and see what you think about it. A lot of time women spit because it’s a) convenient and b) they don’t like the taste of sperm. You can give reasons as to why you would want them to swallow which will cut down on the convenience factor and we’ve already explained some ways to make your sperm taste better which we will look into in more detail later.
Sometimes the women who you’re having an extramarital affair with might just not understand exactly how you feel about the spitting or swallowing issue. If it really is important to you, talk it out and most women will be willing to go the extra mile for you. Just remember that turnabout is fair play and if you’re going to have a woman going down on you, you’d best be ready to go down on them without complaint.