The changes of the seasons can be a hard time for all of us. Our bodies seem to act up more when the seasons change and beyond that, people's moods are more likely to be down during this time. That makes it a perfect time for affairs, but how to keep your mood up during this shift?
It's been proven scientifically that people's moods fall during the shift of the seasons, particularly the shifts into fall and winter.
The key to overcoming that is to keep yourself busy generally, remember that this is your lull and your chance at having some fun before we enter the hectic holiday season. The weather is changing and in some cases it can be miserable, but it’s also the last hurrah for the summer. Take advantage of it by going out on some dates to outdoor places (weather permitting) if you can or doing some summer activities that you’d meant to squeeze in but never had the time to. Winter always hits with the grace of a punch to the face so here are some ways to have the best fall affair possible and to keep your moods happy and healthy during this season while still keeping your affairs just as happy.
1) Schedule yourself some affair time. They always say that you should put some time away for yourself and we're not disagreeing with that, but in this season especially you're going to want to find some time to find a release for yourself. We're about the go into the most hectic time of the year that masquerades as the most wonderful time of the year. Thanksgiving, Halloween and Christmas are all coming up so if you're going to have your affairs, then try to have the bulk of them in this lull period.
2) Find people who are generally bright and happy. You want to find the positive people. Even if there is someone who is more attractive who is negative, you're not going to enjoy your time as much with someone who's complaining all the time. So keep looks in mind, but you're looking for personality first even if you're going for NSA sex. Moods are contagious and you don't want to catch the wrong one.
3) Make a point of setting yourself an affair goal. What's an affair goal? Well it's pretty much exactly what it sounds like. Even if it’s just to make a connection to one person, set yourself a goal and try to make it. Giving yourself a goal will help you to keep focused and busy during this season. It will also give you something to look back on fondly when the next season hits.
4) Don’t try to mix holidays and affairs. Holidays are for family so when that time of year starts to come around, it’s time for your affairs to wind down for a bit. Thing get a little bit quiet on the affair front simply because you’re going to be spending so much more time with your family during the holidays. Once the holidays are over, however, people are having affairs more often than ever due to being disappointed during the season. You can consider this time getting ready for a semi-hibernation of sorts, making sure that you’ve got everything you need to survive the stressful time that is the winter.