For those of you that aren’t familiar with The Frisky , they often post this Dear Wendy column in their relationship section of the site. I came across this Dear Wendy today and thought I would share it with you.
“I have been married for two years and am blissfully happy. Recently I went off the Pill because it was affecting my sex drive and since then it’s been so high that I can’t seem to stop thinking about sex for more than a few minutes. I have to admit that it feels great and I am having orgasms more frequently and easily. My husband is elated by this, but unfortunately he has a job that takes him away a lot — like about three times a month for several days at a time. He’s gone right now for two more days and I have been climbing the walls with frustration; yesterday I had the day off and I masturbated for several hours, having about 15 to 20 orgasms. Then I did something bad. I went on a website and found another guy who was like me, and we have been sending each other dirty emails for a couple days. It has been just the release I need, really hot but not actually doing anything wrong. But then I stopped and wondered if that was true. On one hand I feel guilty that I am finding such pleasure and excitement through someone else, and on the other hand this is just a fantasy to keep me from losing it while my husband’s away, so what’s the harm? Is it really wrong? Should I tell him? Should I stop? I don’t know what to do! — Horny and Alone”(source: The Frisky)
To read Wendy’s response, please click here.
Do you think cybersex counts as cheating? Many people offer the opinion that if you feel that what you are doing is wrong (as “Horny and Alone” admitted), than it would absolutely count at cheating. But what if you don’t think it is wrong? If you would like to share your opinion, please comment anonymously below.