You've heard about squirters, or women who can ejaculate so hard that she gets covered in liquid but there are times when it almost seems like this is a mythical beast you're chasing and that you would have an easier time finding a unicorn or a dragon for a pet. The truth is that most women can squirt, but most of them don't know how to. They've never had a partner who was good enough to make them squirt. Some women who have had the squirting experience don't like it and will hold back from squirting or letting herself truly ejaculate.
You need to talk with your female affair partner about the idea first, let it sink in. Squirting isn't for everyone and like we said before, she can hold it back. The thing about squirting is that it makes the woman feel like she's has to pee. It's the same feeling since it comes out of her urethra which is the same place that she urinates from. You want to make sure that she's comfortable with this since there is a chance that you might get peed on. If you're going for the big squirt, however, you might as well get used to the idea since there will be hints of urine (even if they're microscopic ones) in female ejaculate.
She might end up holding back and then you're not going to get anything if she doesn't understand that this is what you're going for. You need to talk to your female affair partner and assure her that it's okay for the two of you to get a bit wet. You can even toss in a sexy shower for the two of you later as an incentive so the two of you can be more intimate.
Unlike other scenarios where you want to get her worked up, you also need to make sure she's relaxed. If your affair partner seems uncomfortable, you can keep up a flow of dialogue between the two of you that will help her to relax. Make sure to assure her that this is sexy to you because it will be difficult to convince her to let herself go if you seem uncomfortable or hesitant about the idea of her squirting.
Now that you've got all that down though, how do you make her squirt?
The first thing you should do is let her have a smaller orgasm first. Get her warmed up and don't go straight for the squirting. Squirting can take some time and more than that, once she squirts she's going to be sensitive so you don't want to go straight for the gold. After the first orgasm, get her ready again but when she's near her orgasm again then you've got to find her g-spot.
A shameful amount of men don't know where the female g-spot is, but the best way to find it is to insert a finger with your palm facing upward. You're looking for a bump that would be two inches or so deep inside of the vagina. If it's easier for you, you can imagine that it's under where the clitoris is since it should be around that area.
Once you've found that spot, you're going to want to put two fingers in with your palm up. You can work on her clit with your thumb or your tongue if you're feeling ambitious.
Then you're going to want to curl your fingers. Just crook them like you're gesturing someone to come over. Don't put too much pressure since it's a sensitive area, but you want to keep going with that curling motion of your fingers.
Keep in mind that this is going to take a little bit of time, so you've got to be both patient and gentle. When she's begging you to do other things, you can do so for the first time, but you're going to want to keep up that slow tickling motion. The general rule of thumb is the longer the build up, the more intense the orgasm will be and if you want your affair partner's eyes rolling into the back of her head then you've got to take time.