Sometimes you want to make things more exciting in the bedroom and to couple that with a surprise for your female affair partner. To buy a sex toy for a woman is tricky as everyone has not only their lines that they won't cross, but also their own personal preferences and tastes when it comes their sex toys. Buy the right one and you'll bring a smile to your affair partner's face that will last for months, but if you buy the wrong one you can end up ending an affair much more quickly than you would have expected.
Generally, you'd want to just communicate and ask the woman you're sleeping with what kind of sex toy that she'd want. Sometimes you want to have a surprise to give your affair partner though, so you need to improvise. You're not going to want to be creative with this. Being creative for the first sex toy that you're ever going to buy someone is something that we wouldn't recommend.
If you come in with a gigantic dildo that's purple, you're not going to be able to look your affair partner in the eye unless you're very, very lucky.
Considering that the majority of the women don't reach orgasm through penetration alone, you're going to want to buy something that vibrates.
If your affair partner doesn't have any experience with sex toys then the best one that you can buy them is a small bullet vibrator. They're small, inexpensive and can be used in so many different ways that no matter what kind of sex toy that your affair partner might think she would want… she'll be able to find a use for it. The best part about the bullet vibrator is that it’s discreet and that she’ll be able to use it on her own, so it becomes not only a sexual gift, but a practical one.
We wouldn’t suggest going straight for dildos, usually ones that have vibrating function are probably your best bet since they have the dual function and will be able to be used as either a dildo, a vibrator or both. Make sure that you go for a smaller one rather than one that is larger, since you can never tell what someone’s preference would be.
The most famous sex toy in the world is from Japan and actually wasn’t originally meant as a sex toy. It’s a body massager that vibrates and is called the Hitachi Magic Wand. It is a vibrator only, being far too big to insert generally (the head is about the size of a tennis ball). Since it is dual-purposed as a body massager and a sex toy, there’s a higher chance that your affair partner will be grateful for it and you can always show her how it works on releasing tension in her shoulders.
Now when it comes to buying a sex toy, you’re probably going to want to go into a sex store and buy one. The staff tend to be knowledgeable and will be able to help you find the sex toy that is right for your affair partner. When shopping online, you generally only have a small blurb and a review or two to make your choice with. You never know exactly what it will look like when you receive it either. Going into the store allows you to get a good feel for what you want and just as importantly, it will give you a feeling for what you don’t want to get.
The other thing about going to a sex shop rather than online is that you’ll also be given instructions on how to care for the dildo since each one has different requirements in order to take care of it.
The biggest thing to keep in mind when you’re buying this toy is that you want to put your expectations aside and think about what turns her on. It might sound daft to be reminding you of this, but you need to ensure that her needs are covered rather than what you think would be interesting to see your affair partner use on herself.