There are so many ways to improve your sex life, but the truth of the matter is that it all starts with you. That’s right, baby, it’s all you and as easy as it would be to put the blame on your affair partner, it takes two. Me and you. Or you and whoever else you find attractive. Even if it is in part their fault, there is some responsibility in how you conduct yourself. The philosophy books will always say that self introspection is the best way to go and we’re going to follow along with that theme.
Know thyself and you’ll become a sex god in your own mind (and quite possibly in real life).
What we mean by this is that you need to take some time and think deeply about yourself as a person.
So what kind of things do you like when it comes to sex? Is there anything that is guaranteed to turn you off with no hope of recovering? This reflection on your personal preferences can help to make you the best in bed that you ever could be. You’d be able to look at your affair partner and help get them to have the best orgasm possible. You can also learn how to pick up on the cues from others and you’ll be able to give your affair partner the best orgasms possible. This is even without the sexually loaded and explorative conversations that we’re always pimping on this blog.
So without further ado, some ways to get to know yourself and become a better lover.
1. Our culture is all about the looks. What looks the most sleek and what looks the best for ourselves. Men and women both have been taught to obsess over their looks and even those who are what we consider the epitome of beauty still have to worry about their looks. So learn to love yourself and your body. You can do this by trying to walk around naked while you’re alone or spending time looking yourself in the mirror. Insecurity is stressful when you just want to get naked and have some sexy fun so treat your body right. Do the things that make you feel good, but be healthy. Most importantly, don’t tear yourself to shreds as you look for flaws. This is a mistake that many of us make. So relax! You look fantastic today
2. Don’t over think anything. Stress is one of the biggest mood killers in stress and over thinking is stressful to the extreme.
3. The different kinds of touching have no end and you need to think about where you get turned on the most. Everyone’s got their spot and whether it’s your neck, back, thighs, wherever, you need to know where it is. There is also a difference in the way women like to be touched versus the way that men like to be touched. You can take this opportunity to explore your affair partner as well by saying that the two of you should give each other massages. Learn your spots while learning theirs and have a sexy, relaxing time with some massage oil.
4. When it’s time for you and your affair partner to get it on, try to figure out how you’re feeling that day. If you’re feeling a negative emotion, then don’t have sex. Your affair partner will understand and opening up in this way will help to create some intimacy between the two of you that may have not been there before.