Sex is one of those things that even when you’re good at it there’s still so much to learn. Sexual techniques, fetishes and little tips and tricks that make sure that no one can truly be a sex master in the way that someone could master a sport. Each person that you have an affair with will be different and each woman will have different sensitive spots and little tricks that will make you so sure that there’s always going to be more to learn.
Despite this there are small tricks that will work on most women and will bring your affair partner as much pleasure and satisfaction as she brings you as long as you don’t let the little things slip you by. There are certain techniques and tricks that you can use which will help you with every woman that you sleep with as long as you keep them in mind. Practice makes perfect so try to do these as often as possible.
Scent is our most powerful memory trigger and a certain smell can bring someone back to a time and place, or trigger body memories without someone realizing it. So if you used a certain shampoo or wore a certain cologne the last time you had mind-blowing sex with your affair partner then make sure you smell the same as you did before. You’ll help to trigger those unconscious memories and sensations within your partner as her body remembers the screaming orgasm that she had the last time you smelled this way. In terms of cologne, a musky scent is better than a flowery or citrusy one and don’t be too liberal with the amount that you wear. The cologne is there to enhance your own natural scent, not to mask it.
Are you one of those people who like to keep their touches in a straight line? Well stop it. Stop it right now. We’re not saying that you need to be drawing circles on her body, but by keeping her touches a bit curvy and following the lines of her body, you’ll be able to draw a much better reaction out of your affair partner. Another thing to keep in mind is that light touches are under-rated. Sometimes you want to touch so badly that it’s hard to keep your hands from gripping too hard, but you can do just as much with a light touch as you can do with a hard touch. Light touches are more teasing and will build up the anticipation whereas hard touches are more of a promise than a tease.
Now everyone knows the trope that women are the more delicate and sensitive of the genders, prone to bursting into tears at awkward moments and such. Well, that’s been proven false, but women have more nerve endings than men and are more sensitive to temperature as well as touch. So you want to make sure that your affair partner isn’t too cold because even if you’re not feeling all that chilled, she might be. A good way to test this would be to touch places on her body where blood flows last such as her fingers or her feet. If they’re cold there’s a good chance that the room is too cool for your affair partner and she might not even know it yet.
There’s this whole mythos about men not knowing how to find the clit and that’s not the problem. The problem is that they don’t know how to touch it. Some men will just constantly rub against the clitoris because they argue with themselves that both the clitoris and the penis have the same amount of nerve endings. This is not a button that you can keep pressing until she comes and while the clitoris and the penis do have about the same amount of nerve endings, the nerve endings on the clitoris are closer to the surface which make women much more sensitive to touch. You do not need to go hard against the clit to get a good reaction and you shouldn’t forget to pay attention to the areas around the clitoris as paying attention to those areas will also stimulate the clit in a much more bearable way. The clitoris is so sensitive that it’s easy to make the sensations that you’re trying to give your affair partner far too much to handle and then the sex becomes much less fun for the female.
The back is an erogenous zone for many females, but it is often neglected for the front of the female form. So pay some attention to your affair partner’s back or if you really want to go above and beyond, try giving her a full back massage. Alternating between soft and deeper strokes will have her like putty in your hands and ready to go without much further in the way of foreplay. This isn’t a bad porn movie where you need special massage oil that will turn her on. Just keep your movements soft and sensual. Even if no sex comes from it you’d better believe that your affair partner will remember and appreciate it.