Picture yourself with your affair partner. The chemistry is awesome and everything that you could ever want from a partner. You wanted to spend so much time with each other getting to know your affair partner better and, of course, having the wild and steamy sex that you’ve been fantasizing about when it happens. Something has gone wrong and now you just want to be as far away from your affair partner as possible.
We’ve all been there and embarrassment can be killer to that sexy mood that you’ve craved so much.
But we’ve found that the best way to avoid these things is to have a good defense. Be proactive and you’re not going to suffer any embarrassment with your affair partner. Here are the answers to those questions.
It happens to the best of us because the world moves so fast and we can all just get so damn tired if we're not careful. If you're in a demanding job while trying to juggle your personal life, you're never going to make it as far as you could have otherwise. If you're too tired for sex, just let them know beforehand and then make it up to them later with a nice dinner or something.
It is imperative that you tell someone that you're not ready to have sex before you start the foreplay. If you want to avoid all the arguments, don't be shy and be up front with your affair partner. Again, they should understand and if they don't, then ditch them.
To avoid saying something that you'll probably wish you hadn't, just relax. Often it's nerves that get us saying the dumbest things possible, so just let it go and clear your mind. If you're distracted your affair partner is going to pick up on that and that never bodes well.
The question is why is your phone not silenced when you're having sex? Take a little bit of time to silence your phone prior to getting it on and you'll be a lot happier.
A lot of women these days wear extensions, wigs, weaves and have many other things that make hair malfunctions more than a little probable. If you want to avoid leaving your hair on the sheets, let him know that you don't want him to touch your hair and explain why if he asks. It's much easier to explain what's going on
Okay this one is probably the easiest one that you can avoid and just make sure that when you're meeting your affair partner you're not eating oily, fatty or spicy food for six hours prior to meeting them. Drink a lot of water too because your stomach will be thankful for it.
Intimacy and sex are very personal things and our emotions don't always want to listen. Rather than freaking out on your affair partner, just excuse yourself for a moment and go to the bathroom. Wash your face, take a few deep breaths and practice your smile. You can tell your affair partner what's going on, but you're going to want to do so calmly.
No one likes getting their period and that can be uncomfortable never mind painful. Clean yourself up if needs be and then let him know that sex is off the table for the next week or so. You can't control this and most men will understand this, and if he doesn't understand then he's not someone you would want to sleep with anyway.
Brush those teeth and chew that gum. Keep in mind that when you've got bad breath or you're worried about bad breath that some smells just won't go away. They're tenacious smells like garlic and onions. A breath mint isn't going to help that, so unless you want to excuse yourself to brush your teeth you're going to need to avoid that.