There are a lot of different people, but some people just have a habit of falling in with the most difficult people they can find. You’ve all heard the tragic stories of the men who want the bitchy women or the women who just love a bad boy and rolled your eyes to wonder why they would inflict harm upon themselves like that. The truth of the matter is that we really do have types and this has been shown in research about relationships. Now whether this type is something which we are born with or something which comes through our experiences, we do know that if you’ve dated a bitch once, you’re probably going to do it again without even realizing that you’re doing it.
We’ll leave the problems with difficult men for another day, but there are definitely women who have this tendency to be self-centered, martyrs, bitchy or certifiable. If these are ringing a lot of bells with you, then you need to stop and take a good long look at your choices. It is far too easy to put all of the problems in a relationship on one of the partners. Because the fact is, buddy… That you are the one who is choosing these women who are incompatible with you.
The easiest way to break this habit (or any one, really) is to be aware of what it is that you’re doing. So to help you avoid any stereotypical traps that you might fall into while choosing an affair partner, here are some types that you should consider if you’re struggling with an affair partner. Keep in mind that these are broad strokes and don’t define how the woman is all the time. There are few women who are able to be a bitch all the time. Instead, this is about their treatment of you and your wallet.
Often as hot as the Porn Star Wannabe, but someone you can also bring out in public is the well known in popular culture gold digger. She's young, she's ambitious and for minimal amounts of attention she is ready to let you at that young, nubile body. If you're with a gold digger then you're a man who likes his trophies. Trophy cars, trophy houses and trophy women for you to show off to your friends. The Gold Digger is often portrayed as someone who is taking advantage of the hapless rich man who just wanted someone to love. Bull. We are calling shenanigans. The man who dates gold diggers is also someone who has an ego problem. Only the best for you, right? Well before you start complaining that the women you date only want you for your money, you might want to take a look at how you present yourself. Everything you do gives off little clues about what you like to do and if you are always showing off your amazing suit or high-class cars, if you are always interested in the material things than that's the type of affair partner you're going to attract.
So you've got this girl who can give the bedroom eyes like no one's business and pouts her lips in a way that makes you ache in all the right places. She's sexy and she knows it, but so does every guy who's around her. This woman is used to getting what she wants and has you wrapped around your little finger. Here's the thing though, if you can only go for the sexiest, always ready for a quickie woman then you might have a problem with yourself. These meetings tend to fizzle out quickly and when you'd done with each other, you probably would have trouble remembering her name even if you can remember her breast size. You have ego issues, my friend. And we're not talking about the big dick, small dick issues at all. No one with a small dick would dare go for the porn star wannabe unless they have money because they know that she is so out of their league (or at least think she is). You've got to prove your ego. You're probably the guy at the bar who is always telling your friends at the bar about your sexual exploits until they'd rather learn how to knit than talk about sex a second longer.
She's so cute and oh so vulnerable. There's something about her that grabs you by the throat and makes you want to just… fix everything and make her better. The Broken Doll makes you feel needed and like you're in control only because her own life is often so out of control. The people who are true Broken Dolls and remain that way tend to be people who have disorders of some kind. Whether it's a mental disorder, a drug dependence or some kind of history of abuse… There's something wrong and the more you cater to her, the less she's going to want to get it fixed. Eventually the powerful feeling that you loved about her will become a drain when its constant. If you were a man who can only feel powerful when with a Broken Doll then you're not really someone who wants to be in that position of power all the time. Cut your losses and move on. She'll be desolate, but then again she's always desolate and you'd better believe that the next man she finds will be hearing about what a bag of dicks you were to her.
She'd decisive and knows what she wants, she's challenging and successful in everything she does. She's the type of executive who would need a trophy husband or boyfriend rather than anything else. What does dating this type of woman say about you? Well one, that you're a little passive generally. The men who date this type of women are the guys who call themselves the nice guys, but really aren't. They're the type who get pushed around by their more dominant woman and then get passive aggressive when she's not around. Your choices are either to sac up and start being more of an equal in this affair or you can sit down and shut up while this powerful woman controls the ride.