Everyone is looking for the (seemingly) elusive female orgasm, but most of the time when there are complaints about mastering the female orgasm it’s less about the female and more about the man’s skill. Despite this, there are times when women are unable to achieve orgasm at all.
A device is being created to counter this phenomenon and to help women who are physically unable to orgasm. It would attach electrodes to the patient’s spine in order to trigger an orgasm by pressing a button. While some of the men who are reading this might think that it would be a good thing to have their wives look into, this is only for those who truly can’t orgasm. After all, the device is “as invasive as a pacemaker,” North Carolina surgeon Stuart Meloy has said, and thus the device “is only for extreme cases.”
Still, if you’re having trouble getting your affair partner, wife, or any random female to orgasm then there are some tips that you should keep in mind.
Finding a way to make a female orgasm isn’t hard, it just takes some practice and isn’t always as straightforward as getting a male off.
1) The clit needs attention.
You want to make sure that you’re giving the clitoris the attention that it deserves. After all, only a very small percentage of women are able to orgasm through penetration alone, so you’re going to need to have some friction against the clitoris. It doesn’t matter if it’s your fingers or your pubic bone, but there needs to be something there or else you’re going to be fighting an uphill battle toward the female orgasm.
2) Foreplay is essential.
As much as we’ve said that you should focus on the clit, you can’t put all of your efforts toward the clit right away. After all, women aren’t cars and they can’t go from 0 – 60 in 6 seconds. You’re going to want to spend time teasing your affair partner’s breasts, or touching her in other ways that will allow her to get ready for you. By the time that your affair partner is wet, you’ll generally find that her clit is just aching for your touch. That’s the time to focus some of your attention on the clit.
3) A light touch is all you need for female orgasms.
If you look at porn, you’ll see that everything tends toward the more brutal and rough side. You don’t need to go so hard all the time. Sometimes a lighter touch will help your affair partner have an orgasm. Keep in mind that the clit is a sensitive organ so you can’t just pound away at it. If the sensations are too overwhelming too fast then this can actually block women from having an orgasm.
4) Use everything available to you.
Whether it’s sex toys, your mouth, your fingers, or your dick, you’re going to want to make sure that you’re not missing any opportunities. There are some who would disdain against using a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris, but it’s an easy and reliable way to do so. Keep in mind that you need to put your female affair partner’s pleasure first. Doing so will allow you to have a much better time yourself.