There is something that has been going on for a long time now where Men are obsessed with their penises. Size seems to matter inordinately now and even when men don’t have the size, they love to show off what they have. Obviously a disclaimer is needed here because not all men are so obsessed with their penises that they feel the need to show them off. There’s also men who are ashamed because they consider their penises to be small. Now we could go into the regular spiel about how it’s the motion of the ocean rather than the size of the waves that matters, but you’ve heard them all before. When having an affair, you need to put your pleasure of your affair partner above all other things because this will generally mean that both of you are going to have a really good time.
Confidence (in moderation) is a big part of having sex and the sooner you can find your optimum level of confidence without straying into arrogance, the better off you will be.
So here are some more practical tips on how to feel better about your penis if you feel that you’re lacking or to tone down some of the ego if you feel like your penis can smash through walls when hard.
1) Remember that it’s the overall package that matters.
You could have the nicest formed penis in the world, but the penis alone isn’t going to have females flocking to you. You want to make sure that you look good all around. This means keeping yourself in decent shape and not dressing like you picked your clothing out of a dirty pile of laundry. The way you speak and the way that you act can be just as important as the way that you look so remember not to put all the importance on your little friend down there when you’re courting an affair partner.
2) Skill trumps size.
If you’ve got a big dick and you’re just hammering away at someone then you’re not going to be able to give them the same pleasure as someone who is smaller, but is using their equipment with more finesse. As stated in the previous point, you can’t rely on your size alone. So make sure that you know other ways to pleasure your affair partner than just relying on your penis. It might sound self-explanatory, but we wouldn’t be saying this if we weren’t seeing people make this mistake.
3) Arousal is in the mind.
This happens more so in women than in men, but it still applies. You need to set the right mood and if you don’t, you’re just not going to be able to have a good time no matter what tackle you’re working with. So make sure that you’ve got your mind in the right place and more importantly, that you’ve also got your affair partner right there with you. There are various ways to do this, but natural chemistry is your best bet and if that fails, there’s always sexting to get you both riled up before you get to see each other.
4) How you portray yourself is often how you get perceived.
If you talk about your dick like it’s small, then people are more likely to think that it’s small. Conversely, if you talk up your penis as if it’s huge and then it’s only average size, people are much more likely to think that it’s small. So be aware not only how you portray yourself visually and through actions, but what your words say about you. Make sure that you’re not crossing the line from humility to self-deprecation or from confidence to arrogance and you’ll do just fine.